Police Psychology | Emotional Pinball
by Gary S. Aumiller, Ph.D. ABPP
by Gary S. Aumiller, Ph.D.
Cop humor is iconic but it is disappearing and we should try to figure out why. In fact, those in police psychology understand the importance of laughter and laughing to our overall well-beings (particularly in helping cops deal with stress). And yet, we don’t laugh anymore. There, I said it.
Now before you get all upset and yell that this isn’t true, let me explain myself. I’m 60 years old, and I have an 9-year-old daughter. I’ve noticed young parents with kids her age don’t laugh with their kids as much as my parents did with me, or as much as I do with my daughter. And this sets in motion a vicious cycle in which children laugh less and less as the years and generations go on and on. What is going to happen to them? (more…)
by Gary S. Aumiller, Ph.D. ABPP
We have all heard of suicide by cop when a person takes a gun and points it toward a police officer hoping the officer shoots him. Very clearly diagnosed in most situations and multiple cases seem to occur each year. The suicidal person generally doesn’t have the ability to pull the trigger himself, but can put themselves in a position to die. So, he brings a police officer into the situation as a method of suicide.
Well last week, I became aware of a new method of suicide that I had never seen before, and I am afraid of it for police officers. You see there was this story about a female cop that told of an officer’s attempt to save her family by allowing herself to be killed, if necessary. In psychologist circles, that is called an altruistic suicide, because they are killing themselves to let others live better. But in this case, I call it “Suicide- By-Criminal.” (more…)